Sitting in front of my fan cooling off in the woods and i thoroughly re-read your last post.  If I'm supposed to have an "adminer" user that's got to be it.  I dont have that user but when i click the config gear in webmin it shows adminer as the database user. Can i just create that user with no pw? Can't hurt i don't guess so I'll give that a shot when i get home and if it doesn't work I'll roll out another fresh install and shoot you that log.